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Leading Love – Can it be done?

I read an article yesterday on the subject of love that leaned towards the focus of choice in romantic love. As if we have a choice on who, what, when, and where we fall in love!

To a singular specific point, I will agree with the idea of choice when falling in love, only in that you can choose to live it out or not. On the other hand, I can also agree that we have no choice in attraction and the actual “falling” in love part.

You can deny love even when you feel it strongly. You can look at all the possibilities while trying to rule love out. For example:

1. I was hungry and the butterfly in my stomach was because of that.
2. I was not in a relationship for years and he just seemed right.
3. I was drunk or under un-natural controls of reality
4. I was unhappy and he made me smile.
5. He was stably handsome and I was attracted to his charms.

The variables are endless and the excuses go beyond even the best of catalyst used in chemistry today.

So then, where do we begin to discern the real romantic love from the contrived, confused, and controlled kind of love that seems to be the normalcy of today’s adventures in love?

Here’s the skinny. You have a choice! The choice settles in the decision to

1) live out the romantic love with hopes of finding an evolutionary experience

2) not to live out the attraction of romantic love.

Some even go through many experiences with different subjects in romantic love but with the same exact story lines over and over until one day they finally learn the lessons of evolutionary awakening designed for that specific theme.

If we believe, or are at least open to, the above mentioned ideas we may also agree that control is only a partial possibility. This may even help many people feel as though they can at least participate in the adventures of romantic love with a little bit of control.

So what is the conclusion on this trinket of treasured focus? Maybe some control is available in romantic love for evolutionary awakenings to move into higher levels of living but magic can also hold a huge spot in the surprise of attraction and desire with infinite possibilities into the quantum leaps of Soul.

The end…. At least for today!

Love,
Robin

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Inside the Authentic Life

Treasures and Trinkets

At least twice within seven days I have heard “The world does not think like that – you are different.”
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This came from my sister and from my mother’s attorney’s assistant. What the hell?! They both followed that line up with, “Your way is better and I wish the rest of the world felt that way but they don’t.”
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Ok – so then I stated thinking. Why is the world’s way of thinking so outward? The end moral, or focused conclusion, of this trinket of information is and has always been – do what is the right thing to do, regardless of what other people are doing!
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Why don’t we all live this way? (Contradiction) Didn’t anyone ever say to you “If the world jumped off a cliff would you?” And sometimes they would use your friends name instead of the world…. At any rate, your own morality is important to measure against your soul not against the world!
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Fear of the future can not rule your decisions in the present! Tally the facts up from this current moment, look at the alternatives for today, and proceed with the best actions that meet today’s variables with a small reflection of “worse case scenario AND best case scenario.”
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If you make a decision based on the rest of the world’s actions – you will never make an evolutionary break through. If you always base your decisions and actions on what you think is the right thing to do for everyone – regardless of fear – you will feel good about your actions and even find evolutionary leaps beyond society’s mediocre existence.
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YOUR own reality is infinitely more important than anyone else’s but you still must be fair in this journey. You must be compassionate because it is the natural way your being was made! It will always produce the balance person within the person’s personal expression of Soul.
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Some things are black and white to me. Crystal Clear in what is the right way to be. I don’t know how I got this way and it makes me wonder more and more – how did the world get the other way? But I will leave that study for another day.
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Today – let’s review the trinket of information I learned.
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The surprise from other people close to me about how I think, live, and feel compared to the rest of the world is not a big deal. I don’t think about the extreme difference that often. And even if you tell me someone is a bad person, I still believe that deeper down inside the core being is good. Evolution of that person will bring the goodness out sooner or later.
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So then why this quick note? What have we gathered? Where do we gain new information in this reflection??
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Maybe no new information….Maybe this is just a confirmation to continue living my life from an inside moral compass action plan of my own and know that the world will catch up when they see how much better they can feel by living authentically. We all have this right of an authentic life but many still overlook the benefits.
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Authentic Living is a sure path to happiness. I agree there is more to life than just the way in which you live it, as that would be too easy. But having a balance cornerstone of authentic self to build on each day helps immensely.
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I urge you to double check your decisions/actions and make sure you feel in your heart it is truly the right thing to do regardless of what the rest of the world is doing.
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Start small if you have to – I mean the vegetarian thing is a big one and I think it is the right thing to do but it is hard at this time for me to stop the habit of grilling a steak or fish or chicken – I don’t wish to stop cold turkey yet…. (Cold turkey-what is this expression anyway?)
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Ok – starting to ramble now – that’s it for this note….. We really didn’t get too far down the evolutionary awakenings but at least it helps me to understand why so many reality shows are on TV – many people put more value on the way the outside world is living instead of how they are living.
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YOUtube is open for us to be making reality shows about OURself! Why can’t that be more important?? Why can’t we value our own lives more with high compassion for others than to use the outside world’s actions as our own personal compass to what is right. We must all start to live by evolutionary equality in what is “right” for everyone.
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Love – Robin

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The Gifts of Soul

I watched a Disney show last night with Olivia, my seven year old daughter, titled Ella Enchanted . The gift Ella was given at birth from her fairy godmother was the Gift of Obedience. This gift had a good side and not so good side that later proved to be detrimental to Ella’s survival, happiness, and true love.

In the end, Ella was the only one who could break free from this so called impossible release of a gift.

This made me think about my own life and how the “obedience” nightmare has held me back from so many things. As I started expanding my thinking by traveling farther out into an even more macro-minded state, it hit me!

Gifts of Soul are given for a finite time period. We can, and must, release the gifts to learn of newer, more fitting, gifts of spirit/soul that better meet our needs of growth, awareness, and evolution.

This may be old news to you, or I may have expressed this idea with too many business “Macro” lingo terms that helped loose you completely. The important part to walk away with is this:

1. Be grateful of the gifts Soul brings to you but make sure you value there “shelf-life”… in other words… Just as you out grow friends, clothing, desires, and favorite foods…. So too will you out grow gifts of Soul.

2. Be open for the new gifts of Soul that you are now ready to enjoy, explore, and utilize.

3. Ask the questions of true desire and walk into the new adventures of authentic life with joy!

Lessons of love appear endlessly upon our paths. It is within self reflection where growth of experience expands. I will share with you my tiny treasures that I find each day as long as you promise to reflect upon your own.

Enjoy the evolutionary forces that are holding you today. Give love your attention and she will bring you joy beyond your imagination.

Love,
Robin

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